How many ways can you love?

Hello to our readers and followers,

Just as I may miss a week… I may throw a post up unexpectedly, lol.

Physical, mental, spiritual…. Are these the only 3 ways to be in love with someone?   I guess, we all have to figure out if we have these 3 first….

For me, with Sha’ahn, physical attraction was strong out the gate!  I told her something the day we met.  It was simply me admiring her strong facial structure, and I told her, though (on the phone before we actually met) I have not seen her, I could probably close my eyes, and describe her to a sketch artist.  THAT is how much I was into her physical.  Which a lot of us are like that in the beginning, so turned on physically.  I still know Sha’ahn is the most beautiful woman in my eyes, but I even appreciate some things she probably doesn’t think I notice.  Things such as her ear lobes, her fingers, and the way her nose is at the end.  I love Sha’ahn to NO end physically.

When it comes to the mental, Sha’ahn under estimates her mind.  She is brilliant!!   She can get just as deep as you can get.  She is philosophical with her words.  She can write her ass off!! I think she could persuade anyone with her writing skills, hell she has a writing quill as a tattoo, LOL. This is why I do not like to have disagreements, or friendly debates with her through text or em. (Probably should not have said that, but OH well).   She can also speak very well and with a high level of intelligence.  Like out in public she will be so inviting and make a stranger so comfortable to talk and listen.  LOL, I even think at times guys actually think she may even possibly be interested in them, but that is just her personality.  AND NO you would not be able to take her away from me anyways:-).  She has that gift.  I think she could talk a group into following her, even if they did not know what they are following her for.  Like, “just come on guys, let’s jump, when we get to the bottom of the waterfall, I will explain more.”  I truly love her mentally.

Ok, I will let you guys in on something, Sha’ahn and I do not have the same exact beliefs spiritually.  She is someone who will ask you “what is your god’s name, since you talking about him so much” That is not to put you down or question your mind, but more to see how much faith you have and where you are truly at with your spirituality.  I am more of your basic Christian.  Sha’ahn and I love one another spiritually because we have an energy that we both feel, even when apart.  When I say love in a spiritual form, I am talking on the level of “soulmate”.  When you have that connection to be able to know what your partner is thinking before they speak it or even if they don’t.   When people are connected like this, regardless of religious differences, different upbringings, different cultures or ethnicities, they should go with it, have faith and if it was meant to be than it shall.   Do NOT allow society or family dictate your heart.

I think there is a 4^th way to be in love with someone.  I think with their heart/ humbleness… So we are going to make a new word,  heartleness  hart-ly-nes (forget spellcheck on this one, lol)  By this I mean, you love how kind hearted your partner is.  Not only with you, but to others as well.  It makes you proud or happy to see them be that way, and be true with it.  I think that can also be a turn on.  Sha’ahn is a very giving person, and she can stand down and humble herself when needed.  I think that is a rare trait to find consistently in a person.  I love Sha’ahn’s heartleness. 

Can anyone out there think of another way to love someone?  Get at me with any ideas or thoughts..

“But the heart’s not like a box that gets filled up. It expands in size the more you love.”- Her

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-JJJ